Spend the day with my family in my own home (as long as they do all the housework involved )Local 100% I don’t like this kind of gathering (people we knew gave us a wedding party since we didn’t even bother having one when we married ) , would do my best to avoid going to even a local one, but would tolerate depending on who it was but travel to it? No.
It’s your birthday! Would you rather have a big party with a lot of people or spend the day going and doing many fun things with your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend?
Would you rather do your own workout routine or have a personal trainer?